You can never tell when to love and who’s to love unconditionally. It will just come unpredictably, and we as humans, we are all deceived by that dream that love only love can heal us.
I am twenty-one years old, single and in a relationship. I don’t know why but I am not amazed by the idea of fooling around, flirting and having multiple commitments with two or more guys. I know that I am not ugly and I got some looks as my friends and some other people complimented me, but having that kind of idea is a major NO for me. I hate any forms of cheating.
Why do some people cheat? Is it a self-anxiety kind of mental disorder? Does it really make them feel good? Does it boost their self-confidence? Does it make them more beautiful or handsome? I think it does not.
Let’s be straight. Now days, when you enter a man and woman relationship, you’ll surely come up into sexual intercourse even without the blessing of marriage; or let’s just say pre-marital sex. You’ll going to have a body contact with someone, being madly in love is not always the reason why do some engages themselves into sexual activities but because it’s their personal necessity as an active practitioner. Try to imagine if you are a flirty person who frequently engages into that activity with multiple partners: sure thing is your health was on a risk; a risk of having HIV and other sexual transmitted diseases. Now tell me, does having many partners make any sense when you are already sick?
Think twice before doing any kind of dumbness. Remember, whatever you will do, it’ll surely bounce back to you. Do not be afraid of loving the only one you adore the most. Give him/her your best shot, be faithful.